Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Friendship

Frienship is the most valueble thing in our life.I've gained alot of knowledge about friendship after watching 'Tyra Bank's show' last night which talked about friends.All this while,i've been thinking that friends come and go whenever they want but i've misjudged about this.The truth is the guy in our life come and go from the 1st day we start an intimate relationship. They are not big deal at all as friends are.But,friends 'poof' when they've done something wrong to us without saying a word.Many of my friends used to betray and back-stabbed me once they get jealous at me.However,i'm used to all these cuz that's what my friends will to do n i don't understand why do they do this?Why was i so kind and just let them do it to me?Was i silly?I've nvr taken any actions against them as i'm a girl who keeps revenge .That's how the 'mean girls' is 'created' once the word 'HATE' appears in their mind.
In the show,one of the case that jeoperdised a friendship is because her best friend slept with her boyfriend.They slept in the room just next to her and it wasn't once.It's twice.However,that girl used the excuse that alcohol is the fault of everything as she went to look for her best friend's boyfriend after she was dumped by her boyfriend.She could go and look for other guys but why her best friend's boyfriend?!Her best friend let her stayed under-one-roof as she thought that she didn't have many friends and it's easier for her to meet her boyfriend(That jerk who's dumped her).Guys are jerk too especially that guy who slept with his girlfriend's best friend.He shouldn't have done that!!!!!A word 'SORRY' could not save this friendship back at once cuz it's not acceptable at all.Alana,the victim in this case didn't accept her ex-best friend's apology cuz she needs time for things back to square one.
The msg i'm trying to preach is GUYS CAN"T BE TRUSTED.THEY JUST HURT YOU AND MAKE YOU LOSE SOMEONE WHO"S CLOSE TO YOU.FRIENDS ARE MORE IMPORTANT.....

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